So, why exactly should a girl date an antisocial guy? He is a lone wolf while she is a social butterfly. He prefers to roam alone while she is the life of all parties. Then what makes these popular girls admire guys who are just the opposite? Ever noticed, how all the hot divas around fall for introverts? There is something so peculiar about these men which makes even the hottest of all girls fall for them with twice acceleration, but what is it exactly? Read to find out.
#1 High sex appeal
He doesn’t wear those bright colored T-shirts to attract all the attention around, but worn out kurtas or old shirts instead. He is not bothered about the crease of his clothes or the polish of his shoes and does not even stay clean shaven all the time but we simply love him for this rough and tough effortlessly sexy look.
#2 Out of your comfort zone
Each day spent with him is totally new and out of your routine. You might just end up cuddling and reading books under a tree, but that would still be something you would have never done before. And for him, going to a club with you and your friends would be a total amusement park trip. This little unpredictability of how your next date with him is going to be will always keep you blushing and dreaming.
#3 Not another puppy of yours
He just doesn’t give you any attention. But isn’t that how it starts for all popular girls and divas. We don’t want someone who parks our cars or carries our bags around. Cuz if we do, we have hundreds of options available to date. But hello, who is that guy who just doesn’t care? Remember what furiated Poo in Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham- “Kaun hai who, jisne dobara pichhe mudhkar mujhe nahi dekha…WHO IS HE?!!”
#4 A mystery you want to unveil
This guy surely does not broadcast every detail of his personal life on his social media profiles. He is not the one to check in on Facebook when he is at this new joint or make a post about his moods and the reasons. This drives you crazy for both good and bad reasons and you can’t help yourself thinking about him and what he does and what it’s like to be in his close circle of friends all night.
#5 He is what you never had before
You like to party, and have your clubbing friends. You like to dress up and everyone compliments. But this guy has nothing in common with you, which makes you wish for him more. Like the celebrated phrase goes- “Opposites attract”, because ‘she likes to sings and he likes to write and they both make a perfect romantic song’!
#6 “He doesn’t talk to anyone, I must be special.”
And now that you start to catch his attention, you cannot help but feel on top of the world everytime he gives you a smile and turns back to glance at you, because you know he wouldn’t have done the same for any other girl before unlike those Romeo kinda aashiqs.
#7 Multiplied intensity of romance
Romancing a recluse and loner is so much intense. He won’t get you red roses everyday and won’t even put up cheesy Facebook status for you, but the small smile that occurs from the side of his lips when you do something stupid or childish is worth dying for.
#8 Good news- He is not a cheat
A guy who does not even know the names of all the people around him would never be interested in hitting on your friend or flirting with your sister. So sit back and relax, he’s a keeper!
#9 He would be the last one to judge you
He is not concerned about what people think of him, who is dating whom, or what’s considered the latest cool. And which is why, he will never judge you for wearing the same dress twice in a week or not wearing makeup and looking perfect all the time.
#10 He is a real hot man, not a funky cool boy
So he is mature and loves you with burning intensity. He protects you like you belong to him, advises you like you’re still a child and continues to love you no matter how stupid you get. He is clearly not the one you would have to mommy around. Hold on to him girls, he is here to take control of things…while you can sit back and have your fun! ;)
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